The ways people dont want to be appreciated

The ways people dont want to be appreciatedThe ways people dont want to be appreciatedHave you everseen a colleague become extremely uncomfortable in the midst of receiving appreciation from their supervisor or manager?tried to show appreciation to one of yur co-workers, and it really didnt go well?been at a company recognition ceremony and watched with discomfort as an award recipient seemed to be in agony while in front of everyone?Follow Ladders on FlipboardFollow Ladders magazines on Flipboard covering Happiness, Productivity, Job Satisfaction, Neuroscience, and moreThe focus of our mission at Appreciation at Work is to help colleagues and supervisors learn how to show appreciation to one another in the ways that are meaningful to that partie. But weve found that people also want to identify hownotto try to communicate appreciation. This is true both for recipients to avoid embarrassment (I really dont want anyone to . . .) and givers (Sorry, I didnt know . . .). No onetriesto embarrass a colleague we want our actions to communicate apositivemessage.Unfortunately, negative results do happen (more frequently than leaders want to admit), largely out of a lack of knowledge. The impact on the employee can be significant. Consider a diabetic receiving a box of candy as a gift or a recovering alcoholic being give a bottle of wine as a holiday present.Many shy, private employees are frequently terrified of being recognized in front of a large group. A surprise celebration will not be enjoyable for someone who likes to know whats coming and doesnt like the unexpected. And a heartfelt (and well-meaning) hug will not be received well by a person who does not like to be touched by others.In fact, one leader shared the story of when she won a significant, company-wide award and welches recognized in front of the whole company at a banquet. She told us that she spent the 15-20 minutes prior to receiving the award in the bathroom vomiting due to her anxiety. Clearly, t his was not the intended effectGiven the high frequency of comments weve received about individuals fears of receiving undesired acts of appreciation, we decided to explore the issue further and found the following themesAlmost everyone can clearly identify how theydontwant to be shown appreciation (and they do so with significant intensity).The undesired act of appreciation can occur in any of the 5 languages of appreciation.Identifying the acts of appreciation not wanted and communicating them to ones colleagues and supervisor consistently lowers employees anxiety.As a result, in our newly revised andexpanded version of theMotivating By Appreciation Inventory, we created a section which allows each person to identify the ways they really dont want others to try to show appreciation to them. The respondent is given several choices of commonly used (but undesired) actions in each appreciation language that they can choose and say dont use these to their colleagues.Do the Right Thing AND Avoid the WrongYes, communicating appreciation in the ways which are meaningful to your coworkers is important that is the foundational message of the5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace. But we have also learned that it is equally important for individuals to avoid making a mistake by inadvertently using an act of appreciation that your colleague clearly does NOT want.That way, you will accomplish two important parts of the same goal*Effectively communicate appreciation to your team member AND*Avoid offending them by doing something stupid (because you didnt know any better)This article first appeared on Appreciation at Work.

If networking makes you nervous, heres a better way

If networking makes you nervous, heres a better wayIf networking makes you nervous, heres a better wayDespite the mountains of information about how important networking is for ones career, many professionals still avoid networking events as uncomfortable time-wasters.One reason for this avoidance is that there is a sameness to many of the events on offer, so there isnt really much of a choice for people who want to make new connections or explore different parts of their industries.But theres another solution start your own networking event, with people you have worked with and want to work with.Sound hard? Its not. The benefits are also enormous, allowing people to gravitate naturally towards each other through mutual acquaintances rather than mingling in an room full of intimidating strangers struggling to make small talk.I interviewed two biotech executives and four lawyers who platzdeckchen up successful networks, and have researched a handful ofentrepreneurs who have done the s ame. Heres how they created their own networks.Become the center of a communityIn 2009, Derek Brandrealized that the biotech community in New York needed a happy hour. When he lived in Boston, Brand, a serial biomedical entrepreneur, routinely attended a long-running monthly happy hour, called Biotech Tuesdays, where biotech researchers and entrepreneurs met to network in a drinks with friends atmosphere. But there was nothing like that in New York.The first thing Brand considered how to make the atmosphere less awkward.The majority of networking events were sporadic and consisted of a presentation, then time for one beer. It delayed the point of networking, which is the chance to connect with new people.You had to hang out for a couple of hours for an opportunity to finally talk with the one entrepreneur you were there to meet, Brand recalls.So Brand, together with Arthur Tinkelenberg - at Ascent Biomedical Ventures at the time, and now a serial entrepreneur- and Chau Khuong, a pa rtner at Orbimed, set out to fill the void.They created the Bio-Entrepreneurs happy hour. It was designed to be an off-hand, relaxed experience, taking place reliably and frequently. They emailleed all their New York biotech contacts, and assembled approximately 30 people for their first happy hour. It has been a monthly fixture on the NYC biotech scene ever since, routinely drawing between 30 and 50 attendees.From the beginning, Brand envisioned an industry event that would increase the networking efficiency of biotech entrepreneurs. That is, it would increase the probability that the right two people would find each other.Because he wanted an event where people meet and make connections with their peers, Brand was deliberate in his choice of attendees. He curated his lists relentlessly.He did not invite service providers (like lawyers and accountants), so that the happy hour did not turn into an event where services were pitched to potential clients. The focus on entrepreneurs has not wavered even as Brands happy hour email list has grown to 700 people.The results Off the top of his head, Brand can name at least four startups that owe their genesis to the happy hour, and mora than a dozen individuals who got their next job through it.The effort only became bigger The event also led to the formation of a yearly local biotech retreat the Foundation Conference, which Brand started with Nicole McKnight (the founder of Kiiln), and director of BioLabs NY.Even though thetime investment for organizing the events is small Brand estimates that he spendsless than 2 hours a month the benefits are significant.The networking series allows Brand to touch base with people throughout the community frequently, resulting in several career and business opportunities coming his way.People hear from me twice a month, he says, referring to the invitation and reminder emails he sends. The invite itself is innocuous, but people remember who you are, andoften reach outto ask you ab out things that are on their minds or introduce you to someone new.Keep it small and bring in regular speakersIn 2015, Paul Daruwala, theChief Commercial Officer of Cidara, a pharmaceutical company specializing in anti-infectives, saw an opportunity to start a niche network in San Diego, and launched theBiotechCCO Network.Daruwala, who worked in biotech and pharma in Boston and New Jersey prior to relocating to San Diego, felt there was a need to bring together current and former biotech and pharma executives focused on the commercial side of the business, so that they could benefit from the collective experience of peers.Daruwala aimed for a truly social setting, so he kept it exclusive members are nominated to join by other members, and there are only 32 executives involved.The CCO Networks quarterly events started as eight folks and a few glasses of wine, says Daruwala. As the network has grown, the events now include an informal around the horn session, providing attendees an op portunity to introduce themselves and give a quick update on their company. The group also invites speakers to talk about scientific innovation and other topics.While San Diego was primarily known as a RD hub, no one had focused on the commercial executives before Daruwala brought them together. As a result of the light that Daruwala shined on his fellow business executives, several companies based themselves in the region and have reached out to him to find new talent.For example, Aries Pharmaceuticals, a startup, used the network to find the people they needed for their organizational build-out.Daruwala, unlike Brand, did welcome the participation of service providers, signing them to sponsor the events.Daruwala estimates that the total time commitment to arrange theeventand maintain the CCO network is approximately 3 hours every three months. But this commitment is now shared with fellow members who volunteer to arrange for the sponsor and the speaker for each event.The Dinner-Pa rty MethodExclusivity seems to be an asset for Running With Heels as well. Runnin With Heels isa business womens invitation-only network, launched by Jenny Powers in 2012. As Powers explained in a 2014 interview, she organized Running With Heels as an antidote to the proverbial Old Boys Club. Her signature event is a dinner party for 4-5 participants a setting that promotes conversation and fosters the formation of genuine friendships.Four tips for creating your own networking eventIf you would like to start hosting an ongoing event and reaping the benefits of being the center of a professional network, there are four major things to keep in mind.1. Keep it smallIts your party invite only those who fit your criteria and focus of the event. Think about the benefits that potential invitees will gain from attending your event, such as new collaborations or job opportunities. The more benefits, the more likely your event is to flourish and build on itself.2. Networking is not the time for the hard sellHosting an event can be fun, but a good host always puts the spotlight on others. Dont view your event as an opportunity for overt self-promotion. Avoid anything that smacks of selling, like pitching your services, or angling for a new job. Your influence and ability are implied when youre the host let people ask about your services if theyre curious.3. Choose the right peopleIn networking, chemistry means a lot - as well as how likely attendees are to help each other. Ask your guests to invite other people into the group, but stress that the invitees should fit the criteria of the group to keep the vibe and purpose strong.4. Make it regularKeep the momentum going by holding the event regularly. It doesnt matter if fewer people show up to the second event than the first. People may miss many of the events, but they only need to go to one to see if they fit well with the group. In the meantime, keep going. Consistency is the key to eventual success.

13 Ways the Busiest People Ever Avoid Burnout

13 Ways the Busiest People Ever Avoid Burnout13 Ways the Busiest People Ever Avoid BurnoutSure, you love your job. After all, you wouldnt be doing it if you didnt. But after years of email upon email and never-ending phone conferences, even the best of us can face exhaustion. To find out how to successfully combat- even avoid- this phenomenon, we asked 13 startup founders from the Young Entrepreneur Council (a.k.a., the hardest-working people we know) what strategies they rely on. Heres what they had to say.1. Take a Vacation and Fully UnplugVacations with loved ones will help entrepreneurs avoid burnout. Its important to put on an out-of-office message, too, and not respond to emails. Another benefit of taking a vacation is you set a good example for hard-working employees. - Jesse Pujji, Ampush2. Forget Balance, Find HarmonyI think people who say its all about work-life balance are wrong. I value finding passion and harmony in my work by being connected to and caring about my team and my customers and making a big difference in their lives. I would burn out way faster working five hours a day at a job that was hurting my soul than I would working 15 hours a day at a job thats feeding my soul. - Dan Price, Gravity Payments3. Know Your Breaking PointI think most entrepreneurs will tell you its impossible to unplug- so burnout is almost inevitable. However, its important to know when youre close to or at a burnout stage. Something as simple as taking a day off, going for a bike ride, or having a fun night out with friends can help to take the edge off. - Pablo Palatnik, ShadesDaddy.com4. Fill Your Day With JoyOur business works to fill our peoples day with what they love. When work feels like a job, we redirect those tasks to someone who loves them. Not a great organizer? We have a team member who is. Hate numbers? Weve got someone who loves them. We are fueled with so much joy that we have a term around the company called the joy hangover. When work is such a b last, burnout doesnt exist. - Corey Blake, Round Table Companies5. Schedule Free TimeSchedule free time on your calendar, just like you would schedule a meeting, and stick to it. Its crucial to take the time you need for yourself, even if its just 30 minutes a day. Youll get back to work feeling recharged and inspired, and chances are, youll accomplish a lot more than you would if you worked straight through the day. - Evrim Oralkan, Travertine Mart6. Travel and Change Your EnvironmentTraveling is the best way to avoid burnout. Take your laptop and spend one to two months working from somewhere else, preferably internationally. With the netz and cloud tools like Dropbox and Skype, theres very little that cant be done from abroad. The change in environment sparks your creativity and allows you to bring new energy into your work. - Leah Neaderthal, Start Somewhere7. Pursue Your PassionStarting a business is a time-consuming endeavor that doesnt end once things start to take off. On t he contrary, the more successful you are, the more time you will be asked to contribute toward your enterprise. Thats why its important you focus your time and energy on doing something you enjoy and are passionate about. - Lane Campbell, Syntress8. Take a NapNaps are not just for children. Instead of having a second cup of coffee, sleep for 20 minutes. Its the best way to refresh the brain. - Jonathan Swerdlin, Fdbk9. Work OutWhen I feel so mentally burnt out from juggling multiple projects, theres only one thing that can recharge my brain and my enthusiasm- working out. Its a way to unplug and just focus on the task in front of me, whether I go for a long run or a four-hour bike ride around my city. When Im done, I have a high so powerful that all of the stress from my day-to-day activities is gone. - Andrew Vest, Preferling10. Live With MindfulnessPersonally, I find the best way to avoid burnout is to have an ongoing focus on mindfulness rather than only when on breaks and vacati ons. Find ways to detach during the week in a way that works for you. Yoga and exercise work for some, while meditation works for others. Be mindful of those moments. Try to take consistent mini-breaks throughout the week to detach and re-center. - Andrew Thomas, SkyBell Technologies, Inc.11. Find a HobbyThe best way to avoid burnout is to find a hobby you can deeply immerse yourself in for a few hours a week. I play ultimate frisbee, and when Im on the field, Im definitely not thinking about my company. Hobbies (such as basketball, ceramics, and climbing) can provide a therapeutic release, and you can come to work recharged and ready to go every day - Bhavin Parikh, Magoosh, Inc.12. Build a Great TeamI used to think vacations would recharge me, but I would just come back to piles of work. In the last year, weve built our team to eight people. The quantity doesnt matter- the key is that its a strong team. I know that whether Im working or not, great things are being done. Feeling th e support from all sides has been critical to my personal happiness. - Aaron Schwartz, Modify Watches13. Meditate DailyEven if its just for 10 minutes, spending the time (especially in the early afternoon) to just breathe has been extraordinarily powerful for me. It keeps me fresh and sharp, and taking self-care seriously sets a great example for the rest of the team. - Derek Flanzraich, GreatistPhoto of stressed out woman courtesy of Shutterstock.

Panel Interview Questions, Answers, and Tips

Panel Interview Questions, Answers, and TipsPanel Interview Questions, Answers, and TipsA ?panel interview might seem intimidating because you have to meet with so many interviewers at the same time. However, they do not have to be scary. Knowing what to expect - and preparing accordingly - can help you feel confident. Read on to find out exactly what a panel interview is and how to respond if youre invited to one. Plus, review sample interview questions and get tips on how to prepare for the panel. There is also an example of a panel interview invitation via email. Panel Interviews Panel interviews are conducted by a group of two or mora interviewers. Typically, youll be in a room with several people who work at the company - these interviewers make up the panel. In some cases, the panel will ask questions to multiple candidates at the same time. Most likely, each interviewer in the panel will ask you at least one question. If there are multiple job seekers, the interviewers mig ht ask each applicant one question at a time. How to Perform Well During a Panel Interview As with all interviews, preparation is key. If you get invited to a panel interview, try to find out who will be present. Look up interviewers on LinkedIn, so you have some familiarity with their role and responsibilities at the company. Try to engage with all interviewers, and dont just focus on the most outgoing participant. You dont know whos input will be important in the hiring decision. Also, presumably everyone is in the room because their opinion is important. While one of the reasons companies hold panel interviews is to save time, another is to understand how candidates will operate in group situations. To that end, be prepared for fast-paced questions, cross-talk from interviewers, follow-up questions, and for your interviewers to potentially have different opinions and perspectives from each other. As is true so often for interviews, its helpful to try to think of it mora as a conversation, rather than a q-and-a session. Panel Interview Questions Interviewers typically ask a mix ofbehavioralandsituational questions, as well as questions about the candidates personality and career goals. Below are some common panel interview questions Tell me about yourself.Where do you see yourself in 3 - 5 years?What is your biggest strength?What is your biggest weakness?Why do you want to work for our company?How would a colleague describe you?How are you at handling tight deadlines for projects where there is minimal supervision?Imagine that you are introducing a new policy to your co-workers or employees, and you are facing opposition. How would you handle it?Describe a time when you were working on a team project, and there welches a conflict in the group. How did you handle the situation? Tell us about an occasion when you had to deal with a difficult client. How did you prevent the situation from escalating?What is the worst mistake you made in your previous po sition? How did you remediate this?Give an example of a time when you had to explain a complex issue to someone who was unfamiliar with the topic. How to Respond to a Panel Interview Invitation When you receive an invitation to a panel interview, respond right away if they ask you to confirm your availability. If you absolutely cannot attend, contact them immediately and request analternative date and time. If you have any questions about the interview, call the office to ask. Be sure to use whatever contact number or email address they have given you. When preparing for a panel interview, be sure to do some research on both the company and the individual interviewers. You should know their roles within the company and have at least onequestionprepared for each person. If the company has not supplied details on all interviewers, you can politely ask for a list of everyone youll meet, along with their job titles. The day or two before the interview, you may also want toconfirm th e job interview. Call the office to confirm the time and date. You may also want to confirm the location, who you will be meeting with, and how to get there. Panel Interview Invitation Example The following is an example of an email inviting a job seeker to an interview by a panel. Subject Line of Email MessageAssociate Director Interview Dear Jane Doe, Thank you for applying for the position of Associate Director of Simsbury Town Library. We are pleased to invite you to participate in a panel interview. The details are as follows Date Tuesday, May 1Time 10 AMLocation Simsbury Town Library1 Park Drive, Simsbury, CT This will be a panel interview conducted by William Morse, Director of Simsbury Town LibraryArlene Moriarty, Director of Human ResourcesMary Beth Larsson, President, Simsbury Town Library Board of Trustees When you arrive, please ask at the front desk for Irene Trachtenberg, and I will escort you to our conference room for your panel interview. We anticipate that the interview will last 45 minutes. Please call (860-555-2043) or email me to confirm your interview or to reschedule if necessary. We look forward to meeting with you. Sincerely, Irene Trachtenberg

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